These shoes or those shoes?

It’s all about choice. No matter what, you can never blame another for the choices you make. That’s it!! .... that’s the truth of it, the truth hurts but then again, it only hurts because of the way we choose to look at it.

As complex as it sounds, it’s actually quite simple. Everything comes down to choice. It’s in our choices that our destiny takes place. We choose everything; what we wear, what we eat, what we smell like, what we say, write or think, how we feel, how we act, what we buy, and the list goes on...absolutely endless.

And it’s what people don’t get or forget, and we often hear “oh, I didn’t have a choice” = that’s bulls***, that’s what life is all about, the choices we make are what makes our experiences.

And so with a personal experience; I don’t blame any of my ‘exs’ for what’s happened throughout our time together and afterwards, not once did I ever blame them, I simply accepted the choices they made, which evidently helped me make mine.

And so as an autumn breeze must, I disappeared, for without the breeze moving on, there are no seeds of growth for the new spring.